The Toronto Wedding DJ & Gravity Class Entertainment's owner Neal A. McFarlane gives you his Top Ten Tips for Planning the Perfect Wedding Reception.

Hi. I'm Neal McFarlane and I'm a 35 year veteran of the wedding and entertainment industry.
​This is my top 10 tips for planning the perfect wedding reception.

1.Keep in mind that the guests are going to be where the wedding couple is. If you're on the dance floor, that's where your guests will be too.

2.Don't micromanage the timeline. We do want the order of events that are going to occur, but we don't need the exact time of each.

4.If there are older guests try not to sit them close or right in front of the speakers.

5.Don't put the DJ in an obscure corner or location in the room, they need to be close to the dance floor to be able to read the crowd.

6.If you have dance floor lighting you don't want to make it too bright. You don't want to blind your guests as they're dancing on the dance floor.

7.If you have a bar or a photo booth you want to keep them in the main room where the DJ is. You want to keep all your guests as close to the dance floor as possible.

8.When picking the songs for your wedding take into account not only your tastes, but the taste of your guests as well.

​9.You always want to leave your guests wanting more. It's not your responsibility to entertain them until 2 a.m.

10. When picking your music you don't have to overdo it, pick 10 or 20 songs that you like and leave the rest to the DJ to fill in for you.

If you have to cut corners on your budget don't skimp on the entertainment. That's one thing that will make or break your wedding reception. I'm Neal McFarlane and that was my top 10 tips for planning the perfect wedding reception.

Gravity Class Entertainment's owner Neal A. McFarlane speaks about being the wedding entertainer of choice for couples of diverse backgrounds. thetorontoweddingdj.com

 Participations Dances otherwise know as Group or Line Dance songs and are often played during a wedding reception to get crowds on the dance floor.

You have found the perfect dress or suit to wear on the big day but what about your shoes? If you haven't really given them some serious thought, it's time to think again. Your shoes not only need to complement your outfit, it should also be a nice fit. Unlike buying other shoes, buying wedding shoes does involve some further attention.

Many people overlook the importance on how the outfit matches with the wedding shoes because they both play a critical role for each other. First and foremost, you should try on your wedding shoes together with your wedding outfit. Many dresses have a long train and can be a little hard to walk in. You wont want to trip during the wedding so you should have a good amount of control in the shoes that you choose. Give yourself a basic set of routine to try the shoes with you should have no difficulty walking, climbing stairs and even dancing in your wedding shoes. Yes, this goes for men's shoes as well. 

When it comes to heels, it's true that high heels certainly have a particular sense of elegance and style but there are numerous fashionable flat-heeled shoes that you can choose as well. If you are not used to wearing heels but you want to wear them on the big day, make sure that you practice first by walking in them. Ultimately, make sure that you get yourself a pair of comfortable wedding shoes. A tiny shoe bite can turn into a big pain almost instantly during a wedding. In fact, wedding shoes that you can hardly fit in can result in a few broken ankles. This is an awful sight you wont want to see on your wedding day. Hence, if your choice of shoes in due course comes down to style versus comfort, go for comfort.

If your outfit is going to cover your feet and you're absolutely sure that they won't be seen, you can choose something that is simple yet comfortable. Some smart people have put up something as simple as a pair of white tennis shoes as their wedding shoes. If your wedding budget allows, you can also look into designer wedding shoes. There are several high-end designers that are specialized in designing wedding shoes. 

However, to find your perfect wedding shoes, you should consider a wedding shoe specialist. They can be quite pricey but you can be sure that you'll have the best wedding shoes possible for your wedding. These specialists will match your shoes with the fabric and the shade of your wedding attire. Your shoe will also be custom-made to fit your feet size. You can even request for some small accessories to be added to make your wedding shoes to be even more special and unique.

You should make every aspect of your big day as perfect as possible so it will leave good and wonderful memories to you and your family members.

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Most people who are not familiar with the art of DJing would say ​“A DJ is A DJ is a DJ”. 
Many don’t understand why DJ “A” charges $1 and DJ “B” charges $2 for essentially the same job,
playing music.Not only are there different skill levels but there are different experience levels as well. Yes, all DJs play music BUT

Some DJs only play music
Some DJs play music and can make announcements
Some DJs play music and are DJ MC’s comfortable with introductions, announcements and the like.
Then there are also those few DJs who are DJ Entertainers.
 
Those DJs hone their craft with practice and education to bring you, what I like to call, the complete package. A DJ Entertainer will not only play music & entertain your guests but also help craft and maintain the day’s timeline. They will be the liaise with the venue and other vendors to make sure that the whole day flows smoothly.
 
So the answer is NO, all DJs are not all the same! When you are looking into entertainment for your big day, find the DJ that is going to best execute the dream that you have for your wedding day. 

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When planning your wedding, you want everything to be perfect. This is why you have to think about every detail, including the weather, location, catering, etc. This is especially important if you’re planning to have an outdoor wedding, because there’s much less you can control. With that in mind, here are a few wedding venue ideas for your perfect outdoor wedding.

The Beach 

The beach is probably one of the most popular wedding venues, and it’s not hard to see why. There aren’t many more beautiful settings than the sea and sandy shore. Just keep in mind that not all dresses can work for a beach wedding; opt for something a bit airier that also allows for plenty of movement. Moreover, a veil near the sea might not be the best idea because it can be quite difficult to control in the wind. Speaking of wind, it’s not uncommon for evenings at the beach to become windy and chilly, so make sure to have a backup plan in case the weather changes. Finally, be aware of the potential noise at the beach, and make sure to prepare a quality sound system, so your guests can actually hear your vows.

Central Park

If you’re from the US and thinking of eloping to New York, consider having your wedding in one of the most iconic and beautiful parks in the world. Central Park has many different venue options, from the romantic Shakespeare’s Garden that is filled with gorgeous flowers, to Wagner’s Cove that is perfect for a more intimate wedding. One thing is for sure, Central Park has some of the most amazing views, and most of the outdoor wedding ideas can be turned into a reality in this park. However, if your wedding destination is nowhere near your hometown, don’t forget to inform your guests in time, and help them with the traveling and accommodation details as much as you can.

Hotel

If you already have a destination in mind, consider holding your wedding party in a boutique hotel that already has everything you’d need for a perfect wedding – including a scenic garden. Organizing your wedding in a beautiful outdoor wedding venue in Sydney means that you’d have much less to worry about when it comes to catering, seating options, bathrooms, etc. Therefore, you’d be able to focus on the details that would make your wedding truly yours. Just make sure to do your research, as you want to choose a hotel that has experience with weddings, especially if you’re planning a bigger party.

Your Own Back Yard 

Sometimes, you don’t have to go far to find the best outdoor wedding venue. If you have a big backyard, you can organize a wedding at home as well. First, make sure there actually is enough space for all your guests. Next, as always, keep the weather in mind – rent a tent or canopy in case of rain, and make sure there is plenty of shade in case of warmer weather. Also, adjust your food choices to the setting, whether you’ll be ordering pre-prepared food or making barbecue in the yard. Finally, keep in mind the size of your wedding in case you need to rent some portable toilets, extra supplies, chairs, etc.
Organizing an outdoor wedding can be a challenge, especially since you have to take into consideration things that you cannot really control, like the elements. This is why you should start planning in advance, be well prepared in case of rain, and always have a backup plan in case the weather simply does not allow you to be outside. By doing your research and organizing everything on time, you can rest assured that your wedding will be one of the most memorable days of your life.

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My Mission was to blend East & West Indian music during this celebration at Piper's Heath in Milton. 

One of the big highlights of the night was the performance of Mississauga Tassa Kings.
​That coupled with an injection of Bhangra, Chutney, Calypso & Soca helped to mesh the whole night together. ​

​Add in the dinner music from Twin Peaks as well as Corvus Corax during the arm wrestling competition ( yes, you read that right) catapults this as one of the most unique nights that I have had the pleasure of being a part of.

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Regardless of tradition, you don’t have to have children at your wedding. We all love those little bundles of energy but a wedding isn’t always the best place for kids.  You don’t have to feel guilty when considering an adult only reception. This, like many of your wedding day decisions should be made while shelving emotions.  The decision should be made with the best outcome of the day for you and your partner in mind.
 
If you decide that there will be no children at your wedding under a certain age then stick to it. This includes all guests, friends and yes, even your own children. Of course you can make any exceptions that you choose but you should take into account that there may be some confused or even hurt feelings in the room.
 
Allowing children at a ceremony but not the reception will probably cause undue issues for parents.
Finding transportation or childcare for part of the day or having to leave half way through the day is a lot to ask of your guests. It would be much better to make the decision for the whole day.
 
Put the names of your guest on the invitation. That should alleviate confusion. A note could also be added similar to 
“Due to space and budget constrictions we can not accommodate guests under 19 years of age”
 
Be clear with direct family and your wedding party. Many times guests will go to them instead of asking you or your partner if they can bring their kids.  The last thing you want is a call from your sister saying,
“I told your aunt Mary that it was ok to bring her three toddlers…”
 
Be prepared that some guests won’t understand the “adults only” concept. Even though you have been clear about it, you are sure to get a few calls with questions. You more than likely have some people who think that it won’t apply to them and their kids.  This is where you need to be firm and reiterate that you are having an adult’s only wedding, you aren’t making exceptions and you hope they are still going to celebrate your wedding day with you.
 
A great gesture might be to provide babysitting either through your venue or other vendor contacts.
Parents will appreciate you taking that step to ensure that they are still part of your big day.
 
By having an adult’s only wedding you do open up to having a few extra guests decline. Don’t take it personally and don’t let it ruin your day. A wedding can be a fantastic time without having to worry about children screaming, crying or needing to be entertained.  Focus on the people that will be there with you rather than those that won't. 

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I started my DJ career initially at house parties and school dances followed later by bars. In those venues, people came out with the purpose to dance. When I moved over to weddings and private events, the dancing ended up being just one part of the entertainment for the crowd. Considering dancing isn’t the primary focus for these events, it really affects the approach that is needed for filling the dance floor.
 
One of the biggest mistakes that DJs make is that they don’t have a plan moving toward the time when the dance floor is opened. If you want the guests to be ready, and willing, to dance up a storm then the timeline needs to have events progressively more exciting leading up to dance time. You want to build the energy and excitement so that when the time comes, all the guest are pumped up.
 
You can’t expect to go from a toast that has all the eyes in the room watering to a 10 on the energy scale. You can’t go from the excitement of the garter toss to trying to get everyone’s attention for the cake cutting. Managing the emotions and making sensible transitions is the best idea. Remember while crafting the timeline that every event should build up the room’s energy. Each action should be a step closer to your party.
 
Once the timeline is setup then you can decide on specific music. Always take into account that you will probably have guests of various ages, background and even musical tastes. As a DJ it is my job to include every demographic and to have all the guests feeling included.
 
My rule of thumb, that works with most weddings, is to take care of the fans of older music first. Many times, a wedding is the only time that older couples get to "date". Giving them a few classic slow songs to start and some older music is always appreciated.
 
Writing endless song lists for a DJ ends up putting them in an extremely tough position. They may spend more time flipping through the list than actually taking time to read the crowd. I would suggest giving a few genres and a few songs. That coupled with a discussion of how you envision the night would better help create the proper mood. Realistically most people end up giving way more songs than the allotted time would allow. Now your DJ is trying to cram as much of your list into 2 or 3 hours. You just can’t have every song that you have ever liked in that timeframe.
 
There is a small window if time where a DJ has to get everyone dancing. The first 20 -30 minutes of dance time is the most important in my opinion.  If your DJ can get them going during that time then that is the catalyst for the rest of the night.
 
The DJs ability to read the room and feel out the crowd is learned through experience. Not everyone has this skill. If the party portion of your night is an important one then getting someone with the right experience is what you need. Make sure that they understand all the facets of your night and that they can correctly setup your timeline to flow and build correctly. As always, you need to find the right fit for you and your night. ​​
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There is something extra special about a wedding for a couple who are performers at heart. Vicente & Rosana's wedding, at Niagara on the Lake's Pillar & Post, was far from typical. 
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With all their talented friends and family performing it became a showcase celebration!
The night included performances by Jeff, Rosana & Vicente, Nicole & Sam, Lucas & Ursula, Stan, Victor & Nanda, Carlos, Arthur, Diogo & Shand, Pascale & Ursula. 

Here are 9 general Wedding MC Checklist categories the Wedding MC should follow in preparing for the wedding reception.

Meet with the wedding planners
The wedding planners may be the parents of the wedding couple, the wedding couple themselves, or a professional wedding planner.
One of your first tasks as Wedding MC will be to meet with the wedding planners to find out what is expected from you and to get information about the wedding reception.
This is also where you will start preparing a tentative wedding reception agenda and wedding run sheet.

Gather background information on the wedding couple 
The background information you obtain on the wedding couple will help you with remarks you make during the wedding reception.
You’ll also want information about their childhood, courtship, and engagement. And you’ll want details about their forthcoming honeymoon.

Gather background information on the speakers who will be making wedding speeches and toasts
Unless the bride and groom ask you to give a Wedding MC speech or they specifically request no toasts or speeches, there will be other speakers who will give wedding toasts and wedding speeches.
Usually the wedding speeches and wedding toasts will be made by the best man, the father of the bride, and the maid or matron of honour. Other family members including the Mother of the Bride, the Father of the Groom, and the Mother of the Groom may also be asked to make a speech or toast.
The information you gather about the wedding speakers will help you introduce them during the wedding reception.

Prepare the wedding reception agenda
The reception agenda is your detailed timeline of events during the reception and will be prepared in consultation with the wedding planners.
From the arrival of the wedding guests to the wedding speeches and toasts to the final farewell, this will be your guide to keep things running on time and smoothly throughout the reception.

Prepare the wedding mc’s run sheet
The wedding mc’s run sheet is much more detailed than the wedding reception agenda.
For example, where the reception agenda will say “wedding speeches and toasts,” the run sheet will indicate who the speech or toast is to, the name of the wedding speaker, and background information for introducing the speaker.

Prepare your material
Now that you have your background material on the wedding couple and the wedding speakers it’s time to put everything together.
You’ll need to prepare your Wedding MC speech, the Wedding MC Opening Speech, introductions for the wedding speakers, games for the audience, jokes and humorous stories, and anything else that is entertaining and keeps the wedding reception running smoothly.

Prepare the Wedding MC Speech
As the Wedding Master of Ceremonies or Wedding Toastmaster, you may be asked to give a Wedding MC Speech.
Alternatively, if one of the wedding speakers is unavailable at the wedding reception, you may have to step in and give a speech.

Check reception venue set up
Ensure room set up and decorations are scheduled to be completed well before the wedding guests arrive on the day of the wedding.
This is a critical detail. From the seating arrangements to lighting to catering to entertainers...everything must be checked to ensure things go smoothly throughout the wedding reception.

Ensure your clothing is ready
The wedding reception is a special and formal occasion. As a professional wedding emcee you’ll be expected to dress the part.
Make sure your suit, tuxedo, or dress, and shirt or blouse are clean and pressed and your shoes are shined.

There’s a lot more to being a wedding emcee that having a Wedding MC’s Checklist.
But, the Wedding MC’s Checklist plays a vital role in helping you perform your duties professionally and keeping the reception events on track and on time.

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Wedding rehearsal dinners are a time to relax, calm down and enjoy a quiet evening before the big event the next day. Adding some fun and games into the rehearsal dinner isn’t such a bad idea. It’s a great way to help everyone let off some steam, calm down and enjoy each other.

If you’re planning a sit-down formal dinner, fun games and activities can still be on the menu. In fact, if a formal dinner is part of the plans, having some interesting activities on the agenda is not only a good idea, but an excellent one. There’s been a lot of planning, and a lot of stress and the wedding party,close friends and family will welcome the opportunity to have a little fun.

The success or failure of any games or activities largely depends not just on the planning but your venue. If you’re having a sit-down dinner in a restaurant, try to get a private room. Then a myriad of fun activities can be planned, such as “pin the veil on the couple”, in which blindfolded guests spin around a few times, then try to pin the veil on a picture of the wedding couple. Silly, yes, but also fun.

One fun activity sure to help everyone blow off some steam is charades. Whoever is up will act out a scene from a either of the couple’s lives , so it might be graduating from college, or getting a huge promotion at work. The “it” person might choose to act out when one of them tripped and fell at another person’s wedding or when they saved a dog from getting hit by a car. This is a little twist on charades that helps people get to know the couple better, and adds intimacy to what is already an intimate event.

If the wedding rehearsal dinner is a bit less formal and held in someone’s home, there are many more activities that can take place. For example, how about a night of playing board games? Who needs formal food? You can have that the next day at the formal wedding. At this rehearsal dinner party, the games are center stage.
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Bring in some sandwiches and tell everyone to wear their comfortable clothes and settle in for a night of board games. You can set up games on different tables, divide people into groups of 4 or 5 and have everyone rotate tables at designated times. You can even instruct game players that when they move to another table, the game stays out the way it is.  So, for example, dad might begin playing Monopoly where one of the wedding couple was and he’s stuck with only a little money in the bank and no houses on Boardwalk.

So, let’s say the wedding couple are big into sports. If the wedding is to be held in the summer and the days are long, how about a game of touch football or baseball? You can play one family against the other family, men against women, or for a twist, the wedding couple swaps  each other’s family. Any combination works. The idea here is to have some fun, relax and enjoy each other’s company.
Other outdoor activities can include anything that is physical and might help people blow off steam. Have either been more a “bridezilla” or “groomzilla” ? How about a game of tag where their it? Or you can create two members of the wedding party dress-up. Go to a thrift store, fill the trunks with old prom dresses and large-size shoes, and costume jewelry. Divide the guests into two different teams and have someone sit with a timer. The team who dresses one of the people (ideally, two men or perhaps two parents) first wins. Be sure to have a camera at the rehearsal dinner/event, because this is one activity you’ll want to have pictures of!

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Filipino weddings reflect the strong traditions of family and religion. Along with the bridal party, principal and secondary sponsors will also walk in the bridal procession.
PRINCIPAL SPONSORS
The Principal Sponsors are considered godparents to the couple as they move through the rite of marriage. These are the people whom the bride and groom respect and admire. Their participation is symbolic of the wisdom and support they shall offer the new couple.
SECONDARY SPONSORS
The Secondary Sponsors are chosen by the couple because of their affinity or friendship with them. There are four sets of Secondary Sponsors:
THE COIN SPONSOR
The wedding coins, known as "arras", have traditionally symbolized the prosperity that would be shared by the new couple, and the groom's promise to provide for the welfare of his new family.
THE VEIL SPONSORS
The couple's veil is a symbol of purity. The veil represents the cloud which is a symbol of the presence of the Lord. It is placed over the shoulders of the couple to symbolize their union and being "clothed as one" in unity.
THE CORD SPONSORS
The cord represents the couple's bond. It is a symbol that they indeed are no longer two but one in their new life as a couple.
THE CANDLE SPONSORS
The candles symbolize the Light of Christ, the same light they received at Baptism which will be received again to lead them in their new life as a couple

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Saturday, Sept 9, 2017, I had the pleasure of being the DJ & MC for my friend Cyndy & Doug at Vasco da Gama Cultural Centre of Brampton

​As with any wedding, flowers help to make the occasion, whether it’s part of the scene or where the flower girl is dropping them in the aisle. However, knowing what flowers to use for your wedding may not be the easiest thing to know. The information below will look into what you should consider before deciding upon what flowers to use in your wedding.
 
You should be deciding with your florist what flowers will work best at your wedding. 
You should give them as much information as possible to help you come upon your best choice.  Describe what the overall theme of your wedding will be. Additionally, describe the outfits you are to wear and provide pictures of the design if possible. If you are going to have flowers on your wedding outfit, make sure that these flowers will last for a while, as well as not be oozing liquid onto your clothes.
You should also take into consideration whether the flowers you have in mind are currently in season or not. Obviously, if they are in season, it will cost less to obtain them than if they are not (provided you can even get them to begin with).  
Also, take into consideration your guests. Do any of them suffer from allergies? If so, having the wrong type of flower as your main floral design is going to cause misery for him/her/them, so try to pick a flower that won’t cause anyone to have a horrible experience at your wedding.
You should consider whether you plan on having the same flowers for your wedding party or if you will have different flowers. Again, you should consider the aforementioned factors of whether they are in season or if anyone is allergic to them before having your wedding party wear them. Of course, those flowers should go well with your flowers when you assemble together at your wedding.
The bouquets should accentuate the wedding couple not detract from them. Thus, they are usually smaller than the main bouquet and can be a variation or contrast. The bouquets can also be used as flower arrangements at the reception, especially at the cake tables.  
Family members’ lapel pins will usually complement the wedding flowers. To really have the family stand out and be recognized, you could have a slight variation that identifies the family members from the other guests.
Keep in mind that table arrangements don’t always need to have the wedding flowers present.  Instead, you could use cheaper options, including ivy. Done in a decorative way, ivy can look just as spectacular for your table centrepieces. Or you could just sprinkle rose petals around the table settings.
As you can see, there are many decisions to make when it comes to your wedding flowers. You have to determine what is in season when your wedding takes place, if there are any attendees who are allergic to specific flowers, and what flowers go well with the dresses.  
By carefully considering the information above and working with your florist, you’ll find the perfect flowers to go well with your wedding theme and not break the bank in the process.
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As you prepare for your upcoming wedding, many elements need to come together.  This includes the venue, the catering, the flowers, and the music.  Yes, you have to decide on the music for your wedding. Choosing the right music is vital to creating the perfect atmosphere for your big day. In the section below, we will explore the factors you should consider when choosing your wedding music.

The music you select should really reflect your personality, your feelings, and your wedding theme. Your wedding day should be remembered for being a consistent theme of your love for each other. Plus, your love for all of the people who are invited to your wedding.
If your wedding has a strong central theme to it (such as a specific nationality, scene or theme), then your music should complement that, and not be in contrast to it.

When it comes to your first dance music, be sure that the beat is a perfect speed for both of you. You want to make sure to dance well and comfortably to the music, not look out-of-rhythm and uncomfortable. Additionally, always choose a song that has meaning to you both; it doesn’t matter if the song is not trendy or popular.  After all, this is your wedding, your day, so be sure that the song speaks to both of your hearts.
It helps if you think of your wedding as a movie with a plot line; this can help you to decide on the music during the entire day. This includes the music during the actual wedding ceremony, the dances with parents, the bouquet or garter toss, etc. Those pieces should be especially meaningful as compared to the background music that would play during dinner and other more casual moments.  If you want to make some of your guests really feel special, you could have a song or two that really resonates with them during the day.

Be sure to coordinate with your DJ about the music lineup. You want to make sure you know what song is being played during which moments.  After all, you don’t want to get caught off-guard or not know what to do during a song because you weren’t expecting it.

If you are having trouble coming up with good wedding songs, there are many online sites that can give you good options.  Some, like OurWeddingSongs.com, will even provide ratings from people to give you an idea of what is popular and what isn’t.  While you want to have songs that resonate with you, you also want some that will be hits for your guests so that they will enjoy themselves more too.

Selecting wedding music does require some thought and planning to ensure it matches up well with your wedding day.  This day is meant to be one of the most important and enjoyable of your lives, so really spend some time to consider what songs you want to play and when you want them to be played during your day.  
Remember that some popular love songs are about tragedy so listen to the lyrics first, before deciding if the song is appropriate for your wedding day. After all you want to make people happy, not cry, because the lyrics are so sad.

Use the information above to help you come up with the best songs that will resonate with you and your guests to make this day even more special for all.
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What should you expect in your consultation meeting ? 

- Having your initial questions answered 
- Getting to put a face to our name 
- Talking about your wedding, event or celebration 
- Seeing what special touches we can add to make your day unique


How might you get prepared for your consultation ? 

- Speak with your partner about what expectations you both have 
- Try to be open minded to options that you might not have considered before 
- Think of some things you have seen previously that you liked or disliked
- Write down all the questions that come to mind. Ask as many as you can to see if we are the right fit.

If I meet with you do I have to sign a contract right away? 

- Of course not. I want you to be 100% sure that we will be the right fit for each other. If our personality does not meet your vision then we will happily suggest someone that might fit the bill for you. There are no pressure sales with us. 

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​To ensure that your wedding day is the best it can be it’s important to ensure that you include all of the important elements in a timely fashion. This means that you need to have at least a basic list and schedule of events, often known as a “wedding ceremony timeline.”  While there is no standard wedding ceremony order, there are elements that need to be present. We will go over what’s needed and optional ones below.
 
First, determine whether you want your attendees to sign the wedding certificate or marriage license. This is not that common anymore, but it is an option to consider, especially if you have a small, more intimate wedding. Consider whether you want literature, love poetry, or religious wedding readings to be read during the early part of the ceremony.
 
The wedding processional is the entrance of a partner, the wedding party, and the second partner. Determine what romantic ceremony music is to be playing, especially when the second partner starts walking in. Do you want to have more of a traditional flavor, such as “Here Comes The Bride,” or do you want more contemporary music such as Natalie & Nat King Coles’ “Unforgettable”?
 
Decide how you will exchange your wedding rings. Will you state standard wedding vows, or will you write and state your own specific vows?  
If you plan on doing your own specific vows, decide on whether you want to go over them together before the big day.  This is especially true if you come from different faiths, as you may want to incorporate different religious references in your vows and want to be sure you are unified in your vows ahead of time.
 
Decide upon how the ceremony will be recognized. Will there be a community commitment to support the marriage or an officiant (priest, rabbi, etc.) present to officially recognize it and bless the marriage? After this recognition and declaration of the marriage, the couple usually seals their first kiss as a married couple. They then leave down the centre aisle. After a period of time, the attendees will leave.
  
There may be pictures taken outside, as the wedding couple will enter a limousine, a horse carriage, or some other form of transportation to be taken to the reception hall where the reception will take place. There may even be a “Just Married” sign on the back of the vehicle.
     
For a wedding to have the special meaning it is intended to, it is important to set up a program of all of the elements that you want included in it and in the proper order. You want to decide upon the opening readings and/or music, as well as the music for the entrance of the wedding party.
 
All of these elements should be considered in order to ensure that your wedding ceremony will be as memorable as it should be for you, your partner and for all who attend.
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Almost three years after their very first (unique) date Jeff watched his beautiful bride Lisa coming down the aisle toward him. You could see in both their eyes that they only saw each other in that room. Lisa was breathtaking in her stunning gown and Jeff looked dapper in his suit.

A special thanks to our friend's at Two For Two Photography for this awesome group shot. I can't wait to see all the rest of the images from this awesome day.

One of the most important things that I bring to an initial consultation with a wedding couple is a copy of a wedding day emergency kit. I always get an odd look when I give it to them. I guess they are thinking, “ What is this thing for?” or “What’s the catch?” In all honesty there is never a catch. If a couple feels that we are a good fit as a company for their upcoming wedding then great. I just want them to be prepared for any emergency that may arise. (They WILL arise)
 
What are some of the things that should be included in every wedding day emergency kit?
 

1. Antacids  - If there is a day where nerves will affect your body this would be it. Having a pack of Tums or Pepto-Bismol would be a smart thing to do. Not only for the wedding couple but just about anyone on the big day.
2.  Pins (Bobby pins , Safety pins) – The weather can play havoc with best style hairdo. Also with the amount of walking and posing that will be done there is sure to be a wardrobe issue. Having both of these pins on hand make sure that within seconds a minor crisis can easily be averted.
3. Band-Aids - simply put, walking in shoes that are not regularly worn can cause undue pain and suffering. It would easily be rectified with a Band-Aid on a “friction suffering” toe or heel.
4. Tissues – Many couples fool themselves into thinking that they will not be crying. Perhaps having tissues on hand for the parents or siblings may be prudent anyway.

          5. Tied to go stick – My personal favorite that has saved me from many a dinner or toasting mishap

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