Planning a wedding is always challenging, but planning a ceremony that represents the cultures of both you and your beloved can make things even tougher.

That said, when they’re done well, multicultural weddings are some of the most memorable and impactful events you’ll ever attend.
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If you’re ready to plan your own mixed-culture wedding, here are some pointers to keep in mind.

Decide How Many Ceremonies You’ll Have
If the ceremony requirements from each of your cultures are too difficult to blend, it’s possible to have two ceremonies.

You might have both ceremonies back to back or stagger them with a reception in between. Or maybe you have the ceremonies on different days with different receptions, and two different sets of guests.

Decide Which Language Your Ceremony Will Be Held In
If your cultures necessitate that your ceremonies will be in different languages, you’ll want to plan how to navigate that. You may have two officiants present who alternate languages as you take your vows, or you may have different languages for different ceremonies.

Be mindful that for a dual-language wedding, you may also need to send out invitations, save the dates, and post wedding signage in both languages as well.

Let Your Vendors Know What Traditions You’d Like Upheld
Our biggest “hack” for planning a multicultural wedding? Communication! Make sure everyone is in the loop on your needs and expectations, including your vendors.

If you’d like certain cultural customs reflected in the way your vendors provide their service, let them know and see if they’re open to adhering to them.

Decide Which Traditions are “Musts”
The reality of planning a wedding that celebrates two cultures is that it’s difficult to include every tradition from both. Even if you are able to, this may be a little overwhelming for your guests and stress-inducing for you and your partner.

Instead, start by making a list of the traditions that must be included in your ceremony and reception, then plan accordingly. Let the customs that are most important to you take centre stage and practice letting go of the rest.

Remember That it’s Okay to Create New Traditions, Too
Just like any other wedding, it’s easy to get so caught up in adhering to traditions and meeting the expectations of your friends and family that you forget that this is your special day.

You and your partner have a host of things that are important to you outside of your cultural traditions, and those deserve to be included. So as long as you’re blending the cultures you came from, don’t forget to represent the culture you’ve cultivated together, too.

This might look like adding the songs you love to your reception playlist, your favorite snacks to the menu, or making your beloved pet a part of your ceremony—even if neither of your cultures dictates that you do these things.

Above all, your multicultural wedding is about the love you two have found, and we can’t wait to see you celebrate it accordingly!

If your are looking for entertainers who are experts in blended weddings then look no further. 
Contact us or drop us a line at bookings@thetorontoweddingdj.com and see how we can help to make your mixed wedding a success.

When it comes to wedding planning, there are a lot of important decisions to make. And one of the most important choices you’ll have to make is whether or not to hire a DJ offering extra services and perks!

​While some couples choose to forgo this expense, hiring such a DJ can save you money in the long run.
​How, you ask? Here’s why!

• Packages Stuffed with Great Perks Save You Money!

Professional wedding DJs offer wedding packages that include a variety of perks, such as discounts on lighting and access to an online music library. These and several other perks can save you a lot of time and money on your wedding budget.

For example, they can handle all the set-up and tear-down so you can enjoy your wedding day without worrying about setting up or taking down any equipment. A professional DJ will care for everything so you can relax and enjoy your special day!

• Custom Playlists to Liven the Entire Day!

Certified DJs are willing to work with you to create a custom playlist that will perfectly suit your event. This means that you won’t have to waste time and money on hiring a separate band or music group!

• Unique Add-Ons for the Perfect Wedding!

​Another reason to book a DJ offering wedding packages with multiple add-ons is they can help create an ambiance that will be perfect for your wedding.
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For example, a DJ offering lighting services will know how to set the mood with music and lighting. They can even help to coordinate other elements of your wedding décor. It’s another way to ensure your wedding day will be everything you have always dreamed of!

• High-Quality Entertainment for a Memorable Event!

Finally, a good DJ assist as an MC to help and keep your guests entertained throughout the night. It’s a surefire way to make your wedding reception a success!

​When you hire a professional DJ with unique wedding packages, rest assured your wedding day will be one to remember. With their help, you can create the perfect atmosphere for your special day, and you won’t have to worry about a thing!

The big question is, which DJ do you book for this immense responsibility? DJ XTC Entertainment says hello! We’re Toronto’s favourite team of exceptional wedding entertainers who’ve made a name for ourselves by delivering incredible celebrations to couples like you!

Our talent, skills, passion, and decades of experience equip us with all the tools we need to guarantee you’ll have a successful Toronto wedding.

Our Toronto wedding packages were designed for every kind of couple, so no matter what your budget is, DJ XTC Entertainment has something for you.

And we celebrate couples of diverse backgrounds, so whether you’re a couple that is African-Iranian, Chinese-Jamaican, Indian-Portuguese, Russian-Guyanese, or hail from any other nationality or culture, we’ll be there to ensure you’re celebrated and showered with love on your big day!

​One of the most memorable moments at any wedding is the father/daughter dance. And while this dance is a staple of most weddings, there are many ways to get creative with this wonderful moment.

Remember, it’s a time and opportunity for you to show your father how much you love him and how much he means to you. Few wedding moments are as beautiful as this dance.

You must hire a professional wedding DJ to help you realize the moment. And if you’re looking for ways to make this dance even more unique, here are some ideas!

• Play Something Meaningful

Play a song that has special meaning to you and your father. For example, this could be a popular song when you were growing up or a song that reminds you of him.

Another simple way to make the dance more memorable is to ask your wedding DJ for help. Many DJs can come up with a unique song or playlist that reflects the interests and personality of both you and your dad.​

• Use Great Choreography​

If you’re feeling especially adventurous, why not try choreographing a dance routine just for
the father/daughter dance? This will be a moment that you and your dad will never forget!

• Set A Happy Tone 

Perhaps you want to spare yourself too much emotion. Choose a fun, upbeat song that everyone can enjoy. It’s a great way to get everyone on the dance floor and make the moment one to remember.

The most important thing is that you and your dad have fun on such a special occasion. If you stay open to new ideas and embrace creativity, you’re sure to make great memories to look back on for years to come!

Okay, here’s a question: how many years do you believe a DJ has to work before you deem him an experienced professional? Three years? Five years? Ten, or perhaps twenty years?
How about over thirty-five years of exceptional music and unparalleled entertainment?
Because DJ XTC Entertainment has been entertaining couples in North America for that long!

Our aim has always been to give you, the couple, an experience no other wedding DJ can give
you. We want you to relish in the sweet music and high-end, low-maintenance experience we’ll
give you.

We know you’re looking forward to the father/daughter dance, and so are we. It would be an honour to play a song and watch you dance one last time with your father before starting your new family and beginning a new journey.

We’re a team of dedicated professionals who bring something unique and beautiful to every wedding or event we play in. We’ll be more than happy to do this for your big day. Click here to contact us today!

​A wedding should be a beautiful experience. The kind of music you play can go a long way in making this possible. But, conversely, if you get an inexperienced DJ, even a few mistakes can ruin the day and experience. Hire a professional wedding DJ to guarantee that your wedding doesn’t fall victim to these mistakes. If you’re not sure what they are, we’ve listed them below. Take note of them, and we promise your wedding night will run smoothly, and everyone will have a great time!

​The first dance is one of the moments that transform weddings into fairy tales. Those wonderful minutes when you and your spouse hold hands and float across the floor is something you’ll never forget. And yet, it can be exciting or cause anxiety to some couples. So, what if you fall into the latter category? How do you solve it?
 
Whether you’re experienced on a dance floor or a novice, there are a few pointers you should know regarding your first dance. Below are the most important ones!

●      Select A Song That You Both Love
 
While it’s nice to choose a popular song or one that is “wedding appropriate,” don’t rely on these guidelines exclusively to make your decision.
 
If a song you both enjoy isn’t suitable for a wedding, check for the acoustic version. Also, don’t be afraid to spice up your first dance; after all, it’s your big day, and your guests are there to share your story.
 
 
●      Be Sure to Keep It Short
 
Weddings are celebrations, and it’s understandable why you’d want to keep your first dance going for as long as possible. But it’s only fair that you cut the song short. 
 
We say this because if your first dance runs long, it can spoil the mood. So, instead, aim to keep your guests excited so they’d join the party after the reception!
 
 
●      Consider Your Outfits
 
When practicing for your first dance, be sure to think about your clothing as well. For example, wedding gowns with long trains, off-shoulders, fishtails, or mermaid designs might be difficult to dance in. To ensure you can dance in them, put on your shoes and try a few moves during rehearsals.
 
 
Your first dance is incomplete without the right DJs, and that’s where we come in!
We are DJ XTC Entertainment, a team of professional wedding DJs and entertainers in Toronto!
 
We cater to couples of all backgrounds, and we believe we’re the best professionals for your big day because we value you and how special your day is.
 
We’ll talk with you, understand what you want and ensure we play what reflects you as a couple.
 
You’ll love the sheer variety of songs we’ll have for your wedding and even the after-party. Contact us today!

Your wedding DJ plays an essential role in the smooth running of your big day by playing excellent music. Your DJ is only happy when you and your guests enjoy yourselves!

There are many different types of DJs, each with their style and services. For example, some DJs specifically cater to weddings, some to formal events, and some to clubs. More than this, there are also particular myths surrounding DJs, but somehow, many people seem to believe.
So we’ll debunk those myths today! Below are some of the most common preconceptions about DJs.

• All DJs Are the Same

This is a popular wedding DJ myth, but it is entirely false. DJs are categorized into different types, including wedding DJs, but they are not the same. If we had the same wedding DJs, all weddings would sound the same.
The best DJs are experienced and always primarily focus on the couple. But these DJs also ensure your guests have a great time throughout the wedding day.

• Anyone Can Be a DJ

Not everyone can be a wedding DJ. Being a professional DJ entails much more than just playing Spotify or YouTube music. As a matter of fact, music only plays a part in what DJs do.
A professional DJ can also be an emcee or entertainment coordinator. A DJ cares about you and your guests, and they use music to create a wonderful atmosphere at your wedding.

• DJs Use Free Music

Professional DJs do not play free music at your wedding. Instead, they utilize legal paid  music. Conversely, many DJs illegally download free music from the internet and charge a high fee to play the copyrighted songs at weddings.
Ensure you stay away from DJs like these. Using free music at your wedding may have unpleasant consequences. For example, the songs may be unedited and contain explicit lyrics that will ruin your wedding. The music might not be the correct format or bitrate to sound good on large speaker system. But you can avoid all this; all you need to do is hire a professional wedding DJ for your Toronto  area wedding. Hire us!
We are DJ XTC Entertainment, one of Toronto’s favourite wedding DJs and entertainers! If you want a DJ that’s tailored for your event, you can’t do better than us!
We’re a team of professionals who celebrate couples of diverse backgrounds. Click here to reach us today!

The Toronto Wedding DJ & Gravity Class Entertainment's owner Neal A. McFarlane gives you his Top Ten Tips for Planning the Perfect Wedding Reception.

Hi. I'm Neal McFarlane and I'm a 35 year veteran of the wedding and entertainment industry.
​This is my top 10 tips for planning the perfect wedding reception.

1.Keep in mind that the guests are going to be where the wedding couple is. If you're on the dance floor, that's where your guests will be too.

2.Don't micromanage the timeline. We do want the order of events that are going to occur, but we don't need the exact time of each.

4.If there are older guests try not to sit them close or right in front of the speakers.

5.Don't put the DJ in an obscure corner or location in the room, they need to be close to the dance floor to be able to read the crowd.

6.If you have dance floor lighting you don't want to make it too bright. You don't want to blind your guests as they're dancing on the dance floor.

7.If you have a bar or a photo booth you want to keep them in the main room where the DJ is. You want to keep all your guests as close to the dance floor as possible.

8.When picking the songs for your wedding take into account not only your tastes, but the taste of your guests as well.

​9.You always want to leave your guests wanting more. It's not your responsibility to entertain them until 2 a.m.

10. When picking your music you don't have to overdo it, pick 10 or 20 songs that you like and leave the rest to the DJ to fill in for you.

If you have to cut corners on your budget don't skimp on the entertainment. That's one thing that will make or break your wedding reception. I'm Neal McFarlane and that was my top 10 tips for planning the perfect wedding reception.

Saturday, Sept 9, 2017, I had the pleasure of being the DJ & MC for my friend Cyndy & Doug at Vasco da Gama Cultural Centre of Brampton

​To ensure that your wedding day is the best it can be it’s important to ensure that you include all of the important elements in a timely fashion. This means that you need to have at least a basic list and schedule of events, often known as a “wedding ceremony timeline.”  While there is no standard wedding ceremony order, there are elements that need to be present. We will go over what’s needed and optional ones below.
 
First, determine whether you want your attendees to sign the wedding certificate or marriage license. This is not that common anymore, but it is an option to consider, especially if you have a small, more intimate wedding. Consider whether you want literature, love poetry, or religious wedding readings to be read during the early part of the ceremony.
 
The wedding processional is the entrance of a partner, the wedding party, and the second partner. Determine what romantic ceremony music is to be playing, especially when the second partner starts walking in. Do you want to have more of a traditional flavor, such as “Here Comes The Bride,” or do you want more contemporary music such as Natalie & Nat King Coles’ “Unforgettable”?
 
Decide how you will exchange your wedding rings. Will you state standard wedding vows, or will you write and state your own specific vows?  
If you plan on doing your own specific vows, decide on whether you want to go over them together before the big day.  This is especially true if you come from different faiths, as you may want to incorporate different religious references in your vows and want to be sure you are unified in your vows ahead of time.
 
Decide upon how the ceremony will be recognized. Will there be a community commitment to support the marriage or an officiant (priest, rabbi, etc.) present to officially recognize it and bless the marriage? After this recognition and declaration of the marriage, the couple usually seals their first kiss as a married couple. They then leave down the centre aisle. After a period of time, the attendees will leave.
  
There may be pictures taken outside, as the wedding couple will enter a limousine, a horse carriage, or some other form of transportation to be taken to the reception hall where the reception will take place. There may even be a “Just Married” sign on the back of the vehicle.
     
For a wedding to have the special meaning it is intended to, it is important to set up a program of all of the elements that you want included in it and in the proper order. You want to decide upon the opening readings and/or music, as well as the music for the entrance of the wedding party.
 
All of these elements should be considered in order to ensure that your wedding ceremony will be as memorable as it should be for you, your partner and for all who attend.
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One of the most important things that I bring to an initial consultation with a wedding couple is a copy of a wedding day emergency kit. I always get an odd look when I give it to them. I guess they are thinking, “ What is this thing for?” or “What’s the catch?” In all honesty there is never a catch. If a couple feels that we are a good fit as a company for their upcoming wedding then great. I just want them to be prepared for any emergency that may arise. (They WILL arise)
 
What are some of the things that should be included in every wedding day emergency kit?
 

1. Antacids  - If there is a day where nerves will affect your body this would be it. Having a pack of Tums or Pepto-Bismol would be a smart thing to do. Not only for the wedding couple but just about anyone on the big day.
2.  Pins (Bobby pins , Safety pins) – The weather can play havoc with best style hairdo. Also with the amount of walking and posing that will be done there is sure to be a wardrobe issue. Having both of these pins on hand make sure that within seconds a minor crisis can easily be averted.
3. Band-Aids - simply put, walking in shoes that are not regularly worn can cause undue pain and suffering. It would easily be rectified with a Band-Aid on a “friction suffering” toe or heel.
4. Tissues – Many couples fool themselves into thinking that they will not be crying. Perhaps having tissues on hand for the parents or siblings may be prudent anyway.

          5. Tied to go stick – My personal favorite that has saved me from many a dinner or toasting mishap

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While the wedding itself is the most important event of the day, the wedding reception is a close second. This is where you as the new couple, along with all of those who attended the wedding and perhaps a few more guests will go to celebrate the wedding.  
The reception will be less formal and more of a chance to let “your hair hang down,” relax, and have fun. Below, we will explore how to plan the reception so that  a good time Is had by all.
Always keep in mind the reason behind the reception. It’s likely that not everything is going to go according to plan, and that’s okay. Don’t let that ruin your evening. This reception is to be the start of your life journey together in holy matrimony, so don’t let an unforeseen problem put a damper on this evening or on your marriage. You should let any problems that crop up to not ruin the mood and atmosphere of this evening.
Be sure to keep your guests in mind; you want to be confident that they are enjoying themselves as well. Most of your guests will probably have spent a good amount of money and time to be here so you want to make sure that they are finding the atmosphere and event worthwhile. The reception should reflect your personality, including your humor, tastes, and preferences, so as to remind guests what makes you, you.
Decide on a specific style or theme you want your reception to have. This will also help you to determine where you will hold the reception.  
Do you want the reception to be a large gathering or a smaller, more intimate group?
Do you want the reception to be more formal or informal? This also includes whether you want the meal to be more fancy or more casual.  
The theme or style can be based upon your favourite colour(s) or something that is more complex, such as a specific time period that appeals to the two of you, a specific genre of music, or your favourite season.
Be sure to set your budget ahead of time so you can include and eliminate sites right away.  This will help you move closer to your ideal site quicker. Be sure to take into account the money that will be needed for decorations and centrepieces, food and beverages, music, the wedding cake and the site itself.  
Try to narrow down your ideal site to eight to nine sites right away. You can then call each one to see if they have availability on your wedding date. This can help to narrow down the choices even more.  
You can then see if they have all the facilities and room necessary to accommodate your party. Then, you can schedule appointments to visit the venue to get a better idea if this will fit your dream reception or not.  Be sure to have your list of questions handy so that you can truly determine which sites will make the final cut before deciding upon which site will be the one.
Choosing the proper wedding reception venue and having the best theme or style will take some planning ahead of time.  You want to have the right theme or style that reflects your personality.  You also want to be sure that your guests enjoy their time at your reception, as most will spend considerable amounts of time and money to attend.  
By taking these things into consideration, you will determine a venue and theme that will commemorate your relationship and be a fun, memorable time for all who attend.
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Next on your agenda is your wedding venues and which one you will choose. There are two parts to that with the first being to decide where you are going to get married. In a church, at a local park, in your own garden or at a beach. Then you need to decide where to hold your wedding reception.
It is so important to really think about both of these venues and plan carefully to ensure that your special day turns out in the way you want it.

Your wedding reception is where family and friends gather after you have married to celebrate via food, drink, dancing and music. This place has to have enough room to comfortably accommodate everyone. After all, this is supposed to be a social, enjoyable, fun atmosphere and that can’t happen if everyone is squeezed tightly into a small space or can’t get into the venue, right?  
Therefore, you have several factors to think about ahead of time. You must consider how many guests you will be hosting. Obviously, if you have a very large party coming to your reception all small and most medium-sized locations will automatically be ruled out. Of course, you don’t want to rent out a space that is so large your small party doesn’t feel the fun atmosphere.The size of the venue must be appropriate to the number of guests you will be inviting.

Another factor to take into consideration is how much you have in your budget. You want to make your wedding day memorable with the perfect setting. But you certainly don’t want to go over budget and put an undue and unnecessary strain on your new relationship right from the beginning. 
 
If there is a venue that really catches your eye, but is out of your price range and budget, ask the venue whether they offer special discounting for offseason weddings. Some venues are happy to offer a discount in return for you committing to having your wedding there during their offseason.  Be sure when you are negotiating the price for having your wedding at a venue that you are certain on what you are getting. Venues will vary on what they offer, such as tables, chairs, fully-functioning bar, etc. Some venues include that in their stated prices, while others charge extra, so know what you’re getting before you commit.
 
Be sure to think of your guests when you are choosing your wedding venue. After all, you don’t want them to have to walk a mile to use a restroom if you are having an outdoor wedding. Or make it difficult for them to get from their vehicle to the place where you’ll make your vows.  Also, if small children will be there, consider whether there is ample room in case their parents need to take them elsewhere for a while to calm them down.

As you can see, choosing the right wedding venue can be quite challenging, as there are many factors you must consider, both for the two of you and for your guests.  You certainly don’t want to have a venue that is too small or too large for your expected number of guests. While you want your wedding day to be memorable, that doesn’t mean you have to overspend to make that happen.
Keep the information above in mind as you plan your wedding day, and chances are, it will be the very special day you’ve always dreamt it would be.

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​Deciding who should be in your wedding party is not the easiest choice to make. Chances are you likely have many people who would love to be in it, but there can be only one Maid of Honour and just a handful of bridesmaids.  
Likewise, there can only be one Best Man and a few groomsmen, so there are only a handful of spots available. Odds are that you have more than that number of friends, even close friends. The information below should help you to choose the best people possible to include in your wedding party.
 
When choosing your Maid of Honour, a sister is traditionally the first choice. If you do not have a sister or have a sister you are close to, your very best friend is the next best option.  Consider the person who has always stood by you, even in the toughest of times, and has told you things you didn’t want to hear, even when it was good for you to hear them. This is the person who would probably best fit the role of your Maid of Honour.
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Also consider that the person is responsible, as she/he will plan the bridal shower and the bachelorette party. In addition, she/he will be in charge of keeping the bridesmaids’ fittings in good running order, as well as any other tasks that the wedding couple has designated. The Maid of Honour may also be asked to give a toast at the reception.  
The Best Man traditionally is a brother of the groom, unless you or your partner don’t have a brother or a brother you are close to. In that case, it should be a best friend who is responsible (i.e. he shouldn’t drink too much). In some parts of North America, it is customary to choose a father to be Best Man. No matter who is chosen, it is best if the Best Man gets along well with your partner.

The Best Man is expected to organize all bachelor events and provide support in whatever way is needed. This includes keeping track of the wedding rings, especially if a young ring bearer is involved. The Best Man also is expected to make a toast at the reception.
 
Bridesmaids might be those who have a close relationship with either partner. These could include sisters, close cousins, and close friends. Including your fiancé's sister or sisters should also be considered but is not mandatory.  
These women will participate in all pre-wedding events, run errands, attend any tasting and site visits, and stay until the end of the reception. If they are not available for every party, that’s acceptable, though they must send gifts for the bridal shower.

Groomsmen should be brothers, close cousins and close friends of either partner. These men should help to seat guests, help the Best Man throw the bachelor party and dance with the bridesmaids.  
You should also carefully consider who the Flower Girl and Ring Bearer would be. The Flower Girl should likely be a cousin, a niece, a godchild, or a stepchild who is between the ages of three to six years old. This is not the same as junior bridesmaids, who are older and wear tween versions of the bridesmaids’ dresses.  
The Ring Bearer should be a young boy who can handle the responsibility of taking care of the rings (with help from an adult. The Ring Bearer should walk down the aisle with the Flower Girl.

Carefully considering who should be in your wedding party will help to ensure that the day is a memorable one for you and all involved. The people involved should be people who you are close to, who can perform the expected responsibilities and who should be able to get along with the others in the wedding party. By carefully considering the people you are close to, choosing an appropriate wedding party shouldn’t be too difficult or stressful.

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​Traditionally weddings were exclusively held in religious venues like churches. Now couples aren’t “married’ to that idea. There are tons of weddings that are held outside, in courtrooms or even in someone’s home. These areas give a unique look that shows off a couple’s personality and style as well as giving guests a fun time to remember.
 
The images of an outdoor wedding can be fantastic. Weather is never a guarantee so couples planning to have an outdoor wedding should have a backup venue just in case. Clear directions need to be given on the invitation to guide guests to the ceremony. It could be a little confusing since the venue isn’t as easy to find as a church. There should also be information on where the ceremony will be held in the instance that the ceremony needs to be moved indoors due to weather.
 
An outdoor ceremony should take place in an area where there is plenty of shade. The wedding party will be standing up for the length of the ceremony and heat will be an issue. Too much heat may also be an issue to any older guests as well as children attending. Remember also that you will have to arrange for seating and a sound system, so a dry run will be important to determine needs as far as electrical power and seat placement.
 
Large houses can be an ideal place for a non-traditional wedding ceremony, as long as there is enough space. Courtroom weddings are rarely affairs in which a large number of guests will take part, but you will want to ensure that there is available seating for those who do wish to attend.
 
Location weddings are a unique and memorable way to set your wedding day apart. They can also be a very special occasion since usually couples are not be able to spend that much time with the friends and family who attend their wedding. A location wedding allows for the entire party to be together over a period of several days, with lots of time to visit. Remember that you may have to make an additional trip to have final approval over the ceremony venue.  
To add originality, why not consider one of these non-traditional venues for your wedding ceremony? They can work out great for smaller weddings and might even save some money in the long run!
Traditionally weddings were exclusively held in religious venues like churches. Now couples aren’t “married’ to that idea. There are tons of weddings that are held outside, in courtrooms or even in someone’s home. These areas give a unique look that shows off a couple’s personality and style as well as giving guests a fun time to remember.
 
The images of an outdoor wedding can be fantastic. Weather is never a guarantee so couples planning to have an outdoor wedding should have a backup venue just in case. Clear directions need to be given on the invitation to guide guests to the ceremony. It could be a little confusing since the venue isn’t as easy to find as a church. There should also be information on where the ceremony will be held in the instance that the ceremony needs to be moved indoors due to weather.
 
An outdoor ceremony should take place in an area where there is plenty of shade. The wedding party will be standing up for the length of the ceremony and heat will be an issue. Too much heat may also be an issue to any older guests as well as children attending. Remember also that you will have to arrange for seating and a sound system, so a dry run will be important to determine needs as far as electrical power and seat placement.
 
Large houses can be an ideal place for a non-traditional wedding ceremony, as long as there is enough space. Courtroom weddings are rarely affairs in which a large number of guests will take part, but you will want to ensure that there is available seating for those who do wish to attend.
 
Location weddings are a unique and memorable way to set your wedding day apart. They can also be a very special occasion since usually couples are not be able to spend that much time with the friends and family who attend their wedding. A location wedding allows for the entire party to be together over a period of several days, with lots of time to visit. Remember that you may have to make an additional trip to have final approval over the ceremony venue.  
To add originality, why not consider one of these non-traditional venues for your wedding ceremony? They can work out great for smaller weddings and might even save some money in the long run!
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Based on all the request from the 2016  weddings, corporate events and clubs we put together this playlist of the top songs. Do you think there are songs that should be on this list that didn't make it?

We had a fantastic time ringing in the New Year at this joint New Year's Eve & 50th Birthday Surprise Party at Royal Ashburn in Whitby Ontario.
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A “First Look” is a  newer wedding day concept in which the wedding couple see each other before the wedding ceremony. The idea of having a first look is something that many couples labour with. There are various things to ponder when considering a “First Look”.

You Can Connect Privately 

You get to share an intimate moment alone before the fanfare of your wedding day commences. Sharing this special moment with your partner gives you the ability to connect together.

You Can Deal With The Stress Of The Day Together 

Dealing with the start of a stressful day side by side is a great foundation for the rest of your lives. You and your partner get to help with each others anxieties and fully support each other.

​Eliminates Distractions 

Taking your pictures privately keeps the pressure of all the guest in control. As well as opens up more time to spend with guest after the ceremony

If neither of you are diehard traditionalist then a “First Look” might be a great way to go. There is no right or wrong. Whether you choose to or not to do a First Look is entirely up to you and your partner.

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A wedding is one of the most memorable, important, and high points in an individuals life. At a time when two people want to make the ultimate commitment to spend the rest of their lives together, the desire to have personalized vows is certainly understandable. This is one of the most unique and special days in a persons life, so if you want to speak your own personal wedding vows, than by all means, you should go for it! Writing your own vows can be intimidating. Wedding days always add pressure to even the most mundane of tasks, and certainly writing the vows you want to say to your significant other in front of all your friends and family is no small matter! Still, don't let fear cause you to go along with some basic commonly used wedding vows if you really want that personalized touch. Just follow a few basic tips, and this will help you be on your way to writing the tips your future spouse deserves!


 1. Write from the heart. Your wedding day represents the epitome of love between you and your future spouse. The two of you are together for a reason. Anything you write should be honest and from your heart, because that is what will really make your words special.

 2. You don't have to be Robert Frost or Emily Dickinson. If you are a poet, great. Keep in mind, though, that in the end words are just words. Your wedding vows do not have to be an amazing classic piece of literature they need to be an honest display of your feelings for the other person. Don't use long poetical words if all it does is put distance between your words and your feelings.

 3. It ís okay to brainstorm. Before you set down to write everything, make a list of the things about your spouse that you absolutely love about your spouse, then make a list of the commitments you want to make. Figure out what parts of those lists you really want to include (keep in mind the vows are read in front of families and friends) and keep those.

 4. Short and Sweet. It doesn't take many words or a lot of time to make your heart known to everyone present. A lot can be said in a really short time, so don't feel like you have to make the vows any longer than they naturally come out. Follow these four tips, and you'll find yourself getting over your worries to write some great wedding vows that your spouse will love!

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Most Requested Songs September 2015 

Can’t Feel My Face - The Weekend

What Do you Mean - Justin Bieber  

Watch Me - Silento 

Lean On - Major Lazer , DJ Snake & MO

Good For You - Selena Gomez 

Fight Song - Rachel Platten

679 - Fetty Wap 

Shut Up and Dance - Walk The Moon

Bad Blood - Taylor Swift 

Worth It - Fifth Harmony 


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Most Requested Songs August 2015 

Omi - Cheerleader 

Taylor Swift - Bad Blood 

The Weekend - I Can’t Feel My Face 

David Guetta - Hey Mama 

Fifth Harmony - Worth It 

Walk The Moon - Shut Up And Dance 

Andy Grammar - Honey, I’m Good 

Major Lazer - Lean On

Shrillex & Diplo - Where Are U Now 

My Way - Fetty Wap 


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There are two aspects of wedding music that need to be addressed when planning your big day. First, you may wish to select certain music or arrange for professional soloists or musicians to play during the actual wedding ceremony. But at the wedding reception, it’s pretty much anything goes when it comes to selecting wedding music, provided it’s tasteful.

Right away is the time to plan your wedding music. Good talent gets booked fast and you don’t want to end up having to select the brand new DJ with only a few weddings under his belt or something even worse. Booking your music a full year in advance is advisable but at a minimum, you should know who will be showing up and what he or she will be playing at least six months prior to the wedding date.

For most weddings, selecting the music for the wedding ceremony isn’t that complicated because most often, it’s controlled by the person in charge at the location where the ceremony will take place. When you’re researching your wedding ceremony options, be sure to inquire about any guidelines with respect to wedding ceremony music as these could possibly impact your decision. If the ceremony is being held outdoors, check for electrical hook-ups or book live musicians.

Wedding music during the ceremony is basically secondary to the ceremony itself so the music is really meant to sort of ‘fill in the gaps’ during the non-speaking periods such as while guests are being seated, during the procession, and while lighting the unity candles. Of course, it’s your wedding and it can be custom-designed.

The music that’s played at the reception, however, is going to mean the difference between a successful reception and one that’s ho-hum. And this is where things can start to get complicated. When you begin searching for wedding reception music, you’ll realize rather quickly that you have a lot of options. You can book a live band, or a DJ that’ll play pre-recorded music, or you can buy that CD full of top wedding songs and have someone act as the DJ. The later leaves little or no control and isn’t really suggested .

It’s important that you both agree on the type of wedding music you want played at your reception. There are ‘traditional’ songs that almost always are played at certain points during the reception such as the father/daughter dance, the cake cutting, the dollar dance and so on. And then there is all the music in between. Do you want jazz, country, R&B, new age, Italian, Latin, Jewish-inspired, or a little bit of everything? That’s an important decision to make because the musicians you select have to be able to deliver what you want or you won’t be happy.

Try to book experienced professionals for your wedding music. If booking live talent, arrange to hear a live performance before booking. Scrutinize the contract before signing to make sure all parties agree on the number of hours music will be provided and that everything that has been agreed to is in writing. Find out the cancellation and refund policy, too.

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