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Setting the Scene:
The Courtyard Toronto West Mississauga provided the perfect backdrop for Jessica and Carson's wedding. The outdoor ceremony took place amidst the venue's picturesque  outdoor space with blooming flowers, verdant greenery, and a beautiful water-fountain. Under the romantic embrace Nature, the couple exchanged their vows, surrounded by loved ones. The natural beauty of the surroundings complemented their love story, making for a truly awe-inspiring setting.
A Seamless Transition: Following the heartfelt ceremony, guests were invited to continue the celebration indoors for a delightful cocktail hour. The Courtyard Toronto West Mississauga seamlessly facilitated the transition, ensuring that the indoor space exuded elegance and sophistication. Tasteful decorations and a warm ambiance greeted guests as they entered, setting the stage for an unforgettable evening.
Blending Generations through Music:
One of the evening's highlights was the exceptional blend of music that catered to guests of all ages. We curated a playlist that effortlessly transitioned between genres and eras, ensuring that everyone found themselves on the dance floor at some point. Classic hits brought back cherished memories for the older guests, while the latest chart-toppers had the younger crowd grooving. The music selection created a lively and energetic atmosphere throughout the night, uniting generations through the power of melody and rhythm.
Impeccable Service and Attention to Detail:
The dedicated staff at Courtyard Toronto West Mississauga, lead by Jessica, went above and beyond to ensure that every aspect of the wedding was flawless. From the initial planning stages to the execution of the event, their professionalism and attentiveness shone through. The team's friendly and welcoming service made every guest feel valued and taken care of, enhancing the overall experience. The seamless coordination between the different areas of the venue, from the outdoor ceremony space to the indoor reception hall, was a testament to their meticulous attention to detail. Guests felt connected and engaged throughout the evening, enjoying a smooth and uninterrupted flow of festivities.
A Timeless Memory:
Jessica and Carson's wedding at Courtyard Toronto West Mississauga was nothing short of a magical celebration. The harmonious blend of outdoor and indoor elements created an unforgettable experience for all in attendance. The diverse range of music played perfectly catered to the mix of ages, ensuring that every guest had a remarkable time on the dance floor. The impeccable service and attention to detail from the venue's staff elevated the event to new heights. It was an honour to witness such a joyous occasion and be a part of the love and happiness that surrounded this extraordinary couple.
Conclusion:
As we conclude our journey through Jessica and Carson's enchanting wedding at Courtyard Toronto West Mississauga, we are left with the lasting impression of a celebration that united generations, blending music, and creating timeless memories. The seamless transition from the outdoor ceremony to the indoor reception, coupled with the impeccable service and attention to detail, made this wedding a truly unforgettable experience. We extend our warmest congratulations to Jessica and Carson, wishing them a lifetime of love, happiness, and more magical moments together.

Special thanks to @goldenhourphotoco for the sneak peek images 

Of all the Mississauga wedding DJs Mark & Jessica chose us to DJ their unique Micro Wedding at Le Treport Banquet Hall in Mississauga. Due to restrictions Mark & Jessica chose to focus the day on their ceremony and nuptials exclusively. There were a few important family members that couldn't be in attendance. Zoom was used to give friends and family at home the opportunity to still be included in the special day. Le Treport provided their lovely chapel which was the elegant backdrop to the ceremony. The officiant Robb McDonald kept the intimate ceremony light, fun and personable. The one thing that made this wedding so memorable was the roses dedication that Mark & Jessica did for their grandmothers. 

Mark & Jessica decided on these specific songs for the day: 

Prelude Music Preferences
A Million Dreams - Benny Martin 
Just the Way You Are -  Vitamin String Quartet 
Rewrite the Stars - The Piano Guys 
Baby I love your Way - Benny Martin 

Wedding Party Processional
Stand By Me - Piano Wedding Version Benny Martin

Bride Processional  
Concerning Hobbits (The Fellowship of the Rings)  - Vitamin String Quartet 

Songs During Licence Signing & Interlude
Groovy Kind of Love - Phil Collins 
It's You I Like - Mister Rogers

Recessional
Forever and ever, amen - Randy Travis 

Again, it was an honour to be the one and only Mississauga Wedding DJ that Mark & Jessica trusted for their Micro Wedding. Thank You! 
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Most people who are not familiar with the art of DJing would say ​“A DJ is A DJ is a DJ”. 
Many don’t understand why DJ “A” charges $1 and DJ “B” charges $2 for essentially the same job,
playing music.Not only are there different skill levels but there are different experience levels as well. Yes, all DJs play music BUT

Some DJs only play music
Some DJs play music and can make announcements
Some DJs play music and are DJ MC’s comfortable with introductions, announcements and the like.
Then there are also those few DJs who are DJ Entertainers.
 
Those DJs hone their craft with practice and education to bring you, what I like to call, the complete package. A DJ Entertainer will not only play music & entertain your guests but also help craft and maintain the day’s timeline. They will be the liaise with the venue and other vendors to make sure that the whole day flows smoothly.
 
So the answer is NO, all DJs are not all the same! When you are looking into entertainment for your big day, find the DJ that is going to best execute the dream that you have for your wedding day. 

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My Mission was to blend East & West Indian music during this celebration at Piper's Heath in Milton. 

One of the big highlights of the night was the performance of Mississauga Tassa Kings.
​That coupled with an injection of Bhangra, Chutney, Calypso & Soca helped to mesh the whole night together. ​

​Add in the dinner music from Twin Peaks as well as Corvus Corax during the arm wrestling competition ( yes, you read that right) catapults this as one of the most unique nights that I have had the pleasure of being a part of.

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Regardless of tradition, you don’t have to have children at your wedding. We all love those little bundles of energy but a wedding isn’t always the best place for kids.  You don’t have to feel guilty when considering an adult only reception. This, like many of your wedding day decisions should be made while shelving emotions.  The decision should be made with the best outcome of the day for you and your partner in mind.
 
If you decide that there will be no children at your wedding under a certain age then stick to it. This includes all guests, friends and yes, even your own children. Of course you can make any exceptions that you choose but you should take into account that there may be some confused or even hurt feelings in the room.
 
Allowing children at a ceremony but not the reception will probably cause undue issues for parents.
Finding transportation or childcare for part of the day or having to leave half way through the day is a lot to ask of your guests. It would be much better to make the decision for the whole day.
 
Put the names of your guest on the invitation. That should alleviate confusion. A note could also be added similar to 
“Due to space and budget constrictions we can not accommodate guests under 19 years of age”
 
Be clear with direct family and your wedding party. Many times guests will go to them instead of asking you or your partner if they can bring their kids.  The last thing you want is a call from your sister saying,
“I told your aunt Mary that it was ok to bring her three toddlers…”
 
Be prepared that some guests won’t understand the “adults only” concept. Even though you have been clear about it, you are sure to get a few calls with questions. You more than likely have some people who think that it won’t apply to them and their kids.  This is where you need to be firm and reiterate that you are having an adult’s only wedding, you aren’t making exceptions and you hope they are still going to celebrate your wedding day with you.
 
A great gesture might be to provide babysitting either through your venue or other vendor contacts.
Parents will appreciate you taking that step to ensure that they are still part of your big day.
 
By having an adult’s only wedding you do open up to having a few extra guests decline. Don’t take it personally and don’t let it ruin your day. A wedding can be a fantastic time without having to worry about children screaming, crying or needing to be entertained.  Focus on the people that will be there with you rather than those that won't. 

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​As you are planning for your upcoming wedding. You know that many important decisions have to be made, and they have to be made fairly quickly, especially when it comes to the venues, the catering, etc. Such decisions have to be made with a specific number of people in mind, namely the number of people coming to your wedding. Thus, you need to know who is on the guest list for coming to your wedding, and who will be left off.  
Unfortunately, it’s not an easy task to decide who will be invited to your wedding and who will be passed over. We will discuss how to formulate your guest list below.

First, you have to determine whether your parents are helping to cover the cost of your wedding. If so,then it would be appropriate to give them a few extra spots on the guest list for people they want to invite, even if they aren’t your first choice. Your parents will appreciate it.
Second, you should evaluate all of your relationships with your friends and family and see who you have stayed in regular contact with. A common rule of thumb is, if you haven’t been in regular contact with them for over a year, you can usually drop them from getting an invite.  
Also consider whether business acquaintances and colleagues expect to attend your wedding or if you can remove them from the list. If they know that you are only planning to invite close family and friends, they will likely not be offended or disappointed that you did not invite them to your wedding.
You should talk with your significant other about any people in either of your families, or friends that you really do not want to attend your wedding. Exes that you’ve dated are people who you usually do not want to invite, for obvious reasons. Even if the ex is a good friend, it can be very touchy to invite that person to your wedding, so it is often best not to invite him or her.
If your parents are wanting to invite someone you really don’t want to have at your wedding, discuss it with them to see if you can come up with a compromise. You don’t want to get into an argument with your parents if you can avoid it, as this is supposed to be a happy time for you and your family.  
With that said, if someone who will make you uncomfortable is going to be invited to the wedding, work to either keep that person from coming or to resolve the awkward situation so it’s still a happy time for all.
As you can see, creating the best wedding invite guest list is anything but easy. You have to consider your and your fiancé's families and friends, as well as your parents’ wishes (especially if they are helping to pay for your wedding).  
You have to carefully evaluate how close you are to the people you are considering inviting. Remember if it’s been over a year since you’ve been in contact with them, you can usually leave them off of the list.The same usually holds true for colleagues and business acquaintances, especially if you just plan to invite close family and friends. By carefully considering your relationships you can more easily come up with the best guest list possible to make your wedding day the most special day possible.
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Jumping the broom is an African American wedding tradition that dates back before slavery.  It originates in the West African country of Ghana and was brought to North America by slaves. The Asante valued the concept of sweeping away past wrongdoings and previous evil sprits.
Because slaves were unable to perform legal marriages, they adopted this wedding ritual to symbolize their union, to sweep away the old and invite the new. Simply, it is a new beginning.
Jumping the broom was not a regular custom amongst all slaves and it was preformed sparingly after emancipation. It was made more common thanks to the book and movie “Roots” by Alex Haley.
Current practice is to jump the broom after the minister has announced the couple married. “Jumping the broom” is a phrase still used to refer to getting married even though the act might not have been part of a wedding ceremony.
Various other groups like Wiccan, Gypsies and some other religions have also developed their own broom jumping traditions.
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Looking for country music themed father-daughter dance songs? There are tons of such songs by numerous country artists. We narrowed our list down to ten of our favourites. Are there other songs that you would have on this list? Give theses a listen and let us know what you think. 

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : George Strait - You Look So Good In Love 

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : Rascal Flatts - My Wish 

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : Lee Ann Womack - I Hope You Dance

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : Trace Adkins - Then They Do

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : Heartland - I Loved Her First

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : Ernie Halter - Daddy's Little Girl 

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : Tim McGraw - My Little Girl

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : Krystal Keith - Daddy Dance With Me 

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : Bob Carlisle - Butterfly Kisses 

Country Father Daughter Dance Songs : Holly Dunn - Daddy's Hands

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Based on all the request from the 2016  weddings, corporate events and clubs we put together this playlist of the top songs. Do you think there are songs that should be on this list that didn't make it?

Spending your honeymoon in the Caribbean is an awesome idea. It is the first vacation you spend with your partner as a married couple. Like any vacation, you should start with a proper plan and not leave anything to chance.

Here are the 5 easy steps to have a great Caribbean honeymoon:

1. Plan ahead of time. Planning your Caribbean honeymoon should not come second to planning your wedding. They should be planned in conjunction with each other. Research online, ask for the assistance of a travel agent and read travel magazines. This will give you an idea where to go and will help you decide what particular Caribbean destinations you should see. Check out the reviews of the different Caribbean hotels or resorts. User reviews will let you know what prior guests have experienced while expert reviews will inform you of the pros and cons. Find the best hotel or resort you can afford. Here, you must decide what type of accommodation you would get. Make sure you can afford your honeymoon or if not, have your honeymoon registry ready. 

2. Secure your destination. Having planned early, you should have made up your mind where or what hotel or resort you will stay. Have it fixed but give yourself a second and third option if your original plan fails. The thing is: you should have determined where and when to go. You should also have determined what to do when you get there. 

3. Book early. Normally, a good 6-8 month prior to your departure booking will let you have the access to great discounts and special rates. Another thing is, many Caribbean hotels and resorts sell out early especially during the wedding season. 

4. Prepare all your documents. Have your passport and other travel documents ready months in advance. Take note that you are, at the same time, preparing for your wedding and it is assumed that you are very busy with several engagements and appointments. Have a week to prepare for all of these. Travel documents should not be neglected. 

5. Don’t forget to confirm. Weeks before your scheduled Caribbean honeymoon make sure you call your travel agent and confirm all your flight and reservations. Don’t forget to do this so that you can avoid any problems the day of your departure. Doing this would also give you enough time to make changes if there are any. Reconfirm days before your departure. 

Make sure you remember these steps and you will have a bigger chance of a smooth and hassle-free Caribbean honeymoon.

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So, you decided to take the most anticipated walk down the aisle and you have chosen the Fall as the perfect accent.  Fall weddings are very romantic because the season represents a beautiful transition much like the transition you are about to encounter.   The best way to accent the wedding with the season is to choose from an array of fall wedding favours that are ideal for both sexes.

Most seem to think that the wedding is all about one partner .  Actually, it isn’t especially when it comes to choosing the right wedding favour for your guests.  This is a time for both partners to come together as one to make practical decisions.  The pair of you has already decided on the season of the wedding, now its time to work together in honour of your guests.  Lets try this out for size when you think of fall, what comes to mind when the beautiful changing leaves, the cool atmosphere, maybe even cider and doughnuts.  Rest assured, your thoughts were possibly calming to say the least.   This could be reflective in your theme and decor.  This is a good way to narrow down on what to choose for a good fall wedding favour.

The best gift for both sexes is a gift that both can use.  For a fall theme, golden wine bottle stoppers with carved leaf tips are an awesome idea.  Coasters detailed with fall leaves and even photo albums with pressed leaves are great ideas and are great additions to the table decor.  Make an array of this festive event by adding to the table setting place card holders that hold the card in a leaf, a ceramic turkey place card holder or even pumpkin place card holders for that harvest touch.  If your looking for something more edible, maple cookies or honey dried in the shape of a maple leaf makes a great ensemble for guests.

For do it yourself projects, try candy corn placed in a silver mint tin with a clear top.  Get a bit fancier and tie a personalized ribbon around the mint tin in a festive autumn colour to add more spice to the table.  Speaking of spices, this is a great idea for fall wedding favours. Another idea is to place fall theme kisses in chocolate coloured favour boxes or add chocolate shaped leaves to pumpkin centrepieces and place in the centre of the table for the guests to enjoy. A cellophane bag of harvest shaped cookies tied with multicolour ribbon works well with kids.  These ideas are all fun and great for both sexes to enjoy.
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So very proud to be a featured interview on Mobile DJ Tips with DJ Shri.
"Grow Your Clients, Grow Your Business: 30 Years in 30 Minutes with DJ XTC"
This interview touches on tips for both DJs as well as potential clients. Give it a listen here.

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Think saying “I do” is going to be the most emotional moment in your wedding?
Probably so, but putting down a deposit on your wedding venue could be a close runner-up.

Reception costs consume almost half the budget for the wedding, which these days means you can expect to lay out almost $ 18,000, including food. And the venue you select can not only limit your choice of caterers or bakers, it’s sure to affect how much you spend to “cover up” its weak spots or accent its highlights. Most stressful of all, the popular venues book far in advance, forcing cpuoples to make the big decision almost as soon as they set the date.

For that reason, the savvy venue-hunters want to know what questions to ask before they walk in the door, much less signs the contract. Here are a few ideas:

Do you have a pre-set list of caterers I can use, or can I choose my own?

Some venues — high-end ones with their own catering staff, or small-town ones with little competition — require you to use the in-house caterers or choose from a small list of “approved” vendors. It can be difficult to get taste-tests or otherwise put this type of vendor through its paces. If you’re stuck with such a list, search high and low for couples who have “been there, done that” and can give you their honest opinions.

Any restrictions on decorations?

Many venues have them, but rules vary widely from place to place. Common restrictions include: no open flame (or no flame whatsoever), no smoke machines, no tape or tacks on the walls, or no confetti. When linens are provided, some halls will prohibit the use of pins. Ask if the hall can provide any decorations themselves, especially around holidays. Useful centrepiece items such as hurricane lamps or Eiffel vases are not uncommon.

Can we bring our own liquor, is there a “corkage” fee, and do we need a license?

If the liquor is to flow freely at your wedding, you’ll save an immense amount of money by bringing your own. But some venues prohibit this and require you to buy from them. Even worse is the venue that says “yes” to bringing your own alcohol, but charges you a mandatory “corkage fee” to serve it — which typically starts at an unbelievable $10 per bottle or more! You’ll want to be crystal-clear on the fine print regarding alcohol before you commit to a venue.

As for licensing, many places consider wedding receptions to be an “unlicensed social function,” meaning you don’t need one as long as you’re not charging anyone for the alcohol. But be sure to check your local regulations before moving ahead — and ask your venue if they know of any licensing requirements(ie SOCAN)

Is there a cake-cutting fee?

Some venues even limit your choice of bakers, but most don’t. A more common (and sneakier) tactic is to charge you a cake-cutting fee, which like corkage fees, can really add up — often at $1 per slice!

DIY Detective Work

These, of course, are only a few of the questions you’ll want to ask a prospective venue manager. A few more tips while you’re checking out the place:

– Bring a tape measure. Get the dimensions of the room, the tables, and the distance between any features that might impact your decor, like windows. How many outlets are there and where are they located? What kind of climate control is available to you?

– Check the kitchen. Does it look clean, roomy and suitable for your catering staff to work from?

– Check the hall itself. Where will you put the DJ , the cake table, the coffee service? Are there coat racks for your guests? Is a sound system available? Is there an “tie-in” fee to bring your own entertainment ?

– Check out the parking. Is it ample? Is it paved, or can it get muddy in the case of rain? Is there access for anyone with a disability?

One final thing to get clear before you autograph that contract is your venue’s cancellation policy. But hopefully, with these helpful tips, you’ll have done enough homework to rest easy in your choice and not worry about having to cancel. Now that you’ve signed, take some time to sit back and relax … before you tackle the next task in that thick wedding planner!

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The WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards® recognizes the top five percent of local wedding professionals from the WeddingWire Network who demonstrate excellence in quality, service, responsiveness and professionalism. Unlike other awards in which winners are selected by the organization, winners of the WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards® are determined by recent reviews from over a million WeddingWire newlyweds.

                Toronto’s Own DJ XTC Entertainment Services Wins a WeddingWire Couples’ Choice Award® 2016
                    Toronto, Ontario – January, 2016 – WeddingWire, the leading global online wedding marketplace, named DJ XTC Entertainment Services as a winner of the prestigious WeddingWire Couples’ Choice Awards® 2016 for DJ's in Toronto!
                    
                    The WeddingWire Couples’ Choice Awards® 2016 recognizes the top five percent of wedding professionals in the WeddingWire Network who demonstrate excellence in quality, service, responsiveness and professionalism. The esteemed awards are given to the top local wedding vendors in more than 20 service categories, from wedding venues to wedding florists, based on their professional achievements from the previous year. 
                    
                    While many industry award winners are selected by the host organization, the WeddingWire Couples’ Choice Awards® winners are determined solely based on reviews from real newlyweds and their experiences working with DJ XTC Entertainment Services. Award-winning vendors are distinguished for the quality, quantity, consistency and timeliness of the reviews they have received from their past clients.
                    
                    “We are thrilled to celebrate such a high-caliber, committed group of professionals for the Couples’ Choice Awards’® eighth year,” said Timothy Chi, CEO, WeddingWire. “We are proud to continue to serve as the industry leader, with over 2.5 million consumer and peer reviews, and feature award-winning merchants such as DJ XTC Entertainment Services who understands the impact reviews have on their successful businesses.”
                    
                    As a Couples’ Choice Awards® winner, DJ XTC Entertainment Services is highlighted within the WeddingWire Network, which is comprised of more than 400,000 wedding professionals globally.
                    
                    DJ XTC Entertainment Services is proud to be one of the top DJ's  in Toronto in the WeddingWire Network. We would like to thank our past clients for taking the time to review our business on WeddingWire. We value all of our clients and truly appreciate the positive feedback that helped us earn the WeddingWire Couples’ Choice Awards® 2016.
                    
                    For more information about DJ XTC Entertainment Services, please visit our WeddingWire Storefront today.
                    
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                    About WeddingWire, Inc.
                    WeddingWire, Inc. is the leading global online marketplace connecting consumers with event and creative professionals. Operating within a $200 billion industry, WeddingWire, Inc. hosts 10 million monthly unique users across its mobile and web platforms. Consumers are able to read over 2.5 million vendor reviews and search, compare and book from a database of over 400,000 businesses. Globally, it provides these businesses the technology they need to serve their clients through advertising, marketing and business management tools such as websites, payment processing, invoicing and contracts. Founded in 2007, the WeddingWire portfolio of sites serves couples and businesses across 14 countries in North America, Latin America and Europe, making it the worldwide leader in weddings with brands including Bodas.net, Casamentos.com.br, Matrimonio.com and more. The company employs more than 650 and maintains global headquarters in Washington, DC and international headquarters in Barcelona, Spain.  
                

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A perfect wedding isn't only beautiful, it's personal. It has carefully selected details that are meaningful to you and your fiancé.  Here are some very simple ways to add your own subtle, unique touches to your ceremony and reception:

Write your own wedding vows. It doesn't have to read like poetry; the important thing is that it comes from your own heart. Print it out on an index card and keep it handy during the ceremony.
Compile a CD with songs that symbolize your relationship or how it evolved. Play this during your reception or even burn a copy and distribute as souvenirs. Insert a small piece of paper explaining why you chose those songs.

Instead of tossing your bouquet, present it to your mother (or a dear friend or mentor) during your reception. You can also have an additional bouquet made for your partner to also present to someone at the same time.

Compile in a scrapbook. Guests often have free time on their hands during their reception. In the centre of the table, place several pens and small pieces of paper in a pretty basket. Ask them to write their wishes, prayers, or advice for you and your fiancé.

Most wedding reception programs revolve around the couple: friends give speeches. Do something for the guests. Make a video of you and your fiancé talking about the people who've taught you what true love means. Mention friends who've demonstrated real loyalty, or family members who made great sacrifices for you. Intersperse your video with their photos. This is your chance to say thank you to all of them.

If you have a close friend or family member who passed away, make him or her part of the occasion by inserting a small photo in your bouquet, or lighting a tribute candle at the ceremony.

If you have ethnic roots, incorporate a marriage ritual from your culture into your ceremony or perform it during your reception. 

Wear an heirloom. For example, you can use your grandmother ís veil, or wear a locket that belongs to your mother. This is an excellent way of creating a sense of continuity between generations, celebrating your own family even as you go on to begin your own.

Prepare an audio-video presentation that will be played during the parents dances. This can be just a simple montage of childhood photos. A guaranteed tear-jerker! 

If you have kids, help them feel like they're part of the new family by asking them to stand next to you as you say your vows.

Add little elements that say something about your relationship as a couple. For example, if you're giving away picture frames, insert a poem that you wrote or a copy of your wedding vows. If you met at a beach (and would rather not have a beach-themed wedding) incorporate shells into your table centrepiece.

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Most Requested Songs September 2015 

Can’t Feel My Face - The Weekend

What Do you Mean - Justin Bieber  

Watch Me - Silento 

Lean On - Major Lazer , DJ Snake & MO

Good For You - Selena Gomez 

Fight Song - Rachel Platten

679 - Fetty Wap 

Shut Up and Dance - Walk The Moon

Bad Blood - Taylor Swift 

Worth It - Fifth Harmony 


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Situation 1. Martha was about to get married. On the wedding day, she, her mother, her bridesmaids and her father’s partner went to the beauty parlour to have their hair done. Upon arrival, they have learned that only one stylist was present.

The situation created a commotion. The father’s partner, being so vain and inconsiderate was the first to manage her hair done. Of course, the mom and the bridesmaids fumed in anger.

Situation 2. Albert was a groom. His father has a current partner. The partner was almost Albert’s age and is obviously just after fun. In short, it was apparent his father’s partner and his dad are just having a fling. Should the partner be invited to the wedding? 

There you go. Wedding situations can sometimes get really petty. If you are a couple's father’s new partner, consider your position. Do not ruin some people’s precious moments. Do not settle to steal wedding thunders. Adopt a mature stance even just for the wedding occasion. 

Dilemmas 

The usual dilemmas couples encounter involving their father’s new partner and their moms will be discussed in this section. 

Let us consider this situation. Dory’s father has a partner. He threatens that he will not attend or show up at the wedding if his new partner is not be invited. In short, the father wants to display his sexual prowess by tagging along his partner in the wedding.

Inviting them both will never be a problem, Dory thought. But the situation got complicated when Dory got to talk to her mother.

Telling the mom of her father’s demand, the mother, of course, got really really angry. There will be no way she can be at the wedding if her father will bring along his new squeeze. The world seems too tight for the three people.

What should Dory do? It is like asking her who she loves more, her father or her mother? 

Adhering to the wedding etiquettes, Dory should not choose one. She should instead strategize to avoid being made to choose. 

As a wedding etiquette, fathers and mothers should be in the wedding. For Dory’s case, she just told her mom and dad that they would not want to ruin the occasion just because of a tiny dispute. It worked.

Of course, the mom, the dad, and his new partner will never get along, but Dory made sure the three will not meet face to face during the occasion. That way, the wedding moved smoothly. No cakes were thrown and no one screamed at each other. 

What if the father’s partner's long-term? 

Couple's father’s partners are not always on the downside. Sometimes there are those who are meant or intended to be long time partners. 

If that is the case, wedding etiquettes have it that the partner be invited to the wedding. Anyways, she will be a part of the family soon so she should start her function early. 

Make sure the ex-wife and the current partner of the couple's father know that each other would attend so both of them will not be surprised. Remember, it is during surprising moments that hot-tempered people act impulsively. 

Short-term or flings

If the father’s partner is apparently just a fling or just a short-term relationship, and if the father’s divorce with the mom is not yet through, explain to the father the situation.

Tell him the sanctity of marriage will be symbolized in the ceremony. Tell him, though it may sound not really nice, that bringing in a date especially since he is not yet totally divorced would degrade the solemnity and sanctity of the sacrament.

Explain that whether you dislike his partner or you do like her, people will still see him married to the mother. So he should spare his partner from embarrassment by not bringing her along. The partner might just feel that she is not invited to the wedding anyways. 


Of course it is very possible that Mom is the one with the new partner and all the points mentioned would adhere to her new partner as well. 

Parents should be more understanding because they are assumed to be more mature and wise. Thus, if you are a wedding couple in those situations, find the strength to deal with the matter with grace and patience. Be diplomatic and talk it out. This will save you your wedding day.

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While it goes without saying that most of the attention will be on the bride on the wedding day it is still very important that the groom looks his best also. If there are two grooms then THEY are main focus.

One of the best ways of doing this is by following some form of exercise regime in the weeks and months prior to the wedding to get in shape and feel more energized.

Neither partner should overdo it to such an extent that it could cause injury that might affect the enjoyment of the wedding day or the honeymoon thereafter.

By maintaining good nutrition in the months prior to the wedding his hair and skin will look a lot healthier and if he has been following an exercise regime and even his clothes will tend to fit better.

The groom(s) should also get their hair styled by somebody who they are comfortable with and is sure will make a good job before the wedding day.

Don't leave it to the last minute and make sure that you've decided on the hair style well in advance of the wedding day.

It's all about planning as this is the only way to be assured of a good outcome at the end of the day and the groom needs to be on that to-do list of things to get sorted just like everything else.

Don’t try new hairstyles if there isn’t enough time for it to grow back out should it ever need changing.

Too close to the wedding is not the time to start getting radical with things such as hairstyles.

Any other major changes in life can cause stress and this can be reflected on the grooms face and this will also be seen in the photographs so try to lead a steady and relaxed lifestyle prior to the wedding.

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Twice during the past month I have had the pleasure of being part of a wedding at Le Treport Wedding & Convention Centre and both were superb in their own unique way.The first wedding that I was a part of was a two tiered event. The stunning chapel where the wedding ceremony took place was a vision of dazzling loveliness.Thereception room right next door was the perfect size to compliment the number of guest for that night .

The second wedding that I was part of was in a larger room but again the staff and management were on top of every single detail of the evening. Working at this venue made my jobs of dj, mc and planner so much easier

Being in the hospitality industry for the same 30 years that I have Le Treport Wedding & Convention Centre stands as a symbol of quality and excellence. All in all the stunning decor, the excellent staff and fantastic food combine to elevate Le Treport Wedding & Convention Centre to one of my new favourite venues.

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Wedding invitations are one of the most important decisions that the bride and groom need to make. Without wedding invitations, then there can be no guests. The bride and groom will have literally thousands of potential invitations to choose from. There are retailers everywhere and each offers different options. One of the most unique options however, is to purchase blank invitations. This offers the bride and groom many benefits that the preprinted invitations do not.

Blank wedding invitations are perfect for the bride and groom that have a tight budget. These invitations will be much less expensive than those that are preprinted. The bride and groom can then shop around and find the least expensive place to have the invitations printed or they may choose to print the wedding invitations on their own printer. These blank invitations can be printed in either an inkjet or laser printer, which offers the bride and groom endless possibilities while maintaining their budget.

Another benefit to purchasing blank wedding invitations is time. This is an excellent option for the bride and groom who are planning far ahead and want to have everything purchased and planned early. This will allow them to purchase the wedding invitations without having to have chosen the wording for the invitations yet. This is also an excellent option for the bride and groom who are on a tight timeline. Shipping for blank wedding invitations will be much quicker and the bride and groom can have them printed out quickly and send them out to guests sooner than preprinted invitations.

Blank wedding invitations also give the bride and groom the opportunity to decide on their wedding invitation wording and make sure it is exactly how they want it. Once they have finalized the wording, they can have the invitations printed. In addition, the bride and groom may choose to personalize their wedding invitations to suit different guests. Every invitation does not need to be the same. This allows the bride and groom to be truly creative with their wedding invitations.

The designs of blank invitations are just as diverse as those that are preprinted. This is perfect for the bride and groom who are using their invitations to set the tone of their wedding. An elegant invitation conveys to guests that the event will be formal. Since many couples are choosing special themes for their weddings, this is a great way to incorporate that theme into the wedding.

Wedding invitations are not only an important purchase, but it is fun for the bride and groom as well. The couple can hold the wedding invitations in their hands and it makes the entire event seem more real and that is exciting. It does not need to be a stressful decision. Blank wedding invitations offer the bride and groom endless possibilities and benefits. Time and money are both precious commodities that a couple can use elsewhere.

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Seating during your wedding reception is more important than it seems. You want your guests to feel comfortable and, for that, seating is critical. You can shape how much fun everyone has, since you can choose the best seating positions for your guests. 

To begin your wedding reception seating plan, you will first need to know how many tables you will set up at your wedding reception, as well as how many chairs will be at each table. To find this out, contact your wedding reception facility and make sure to also ask them for a chart of where the tables will be at your wedding reception. 

Although your seating chart should be prepared early, you shouldn’t finalize it until about two weeks prior to the date of your wedding reception. 

Place card holders are not only attractive decorations, but they provide a great way to help your wedding guests with the seating. Your guests should be able to quickly find their seat. Each card should have the guest’s or couple’s names. 

Seat people with similar interests at the same table. Think of a unique and fun way to identify each table. 
Seat wedding guest of similar ages together.
Seat family members who don't see each other often to help them catch up on the latest family matters. You should only seat family members together, if they like each other!
Seat an even number of guests at each table.
Seat your wedding reception guests who enjoy dancing close to the dance floor.

To avoid possible conflicts, divorced parents should have their own tables. Seat them separately with their respective family members. 

Keep small children next to their parents unless there is a designated children's room or table with a caregiver.

Don’t worry about a seating chart for a cocktails only the wedding reception. If it is a very small party, you can skip the seating chart altogether. For a formal dinner reception, a seating chart is essential. Don’t wait until the last minute to decide who should sit at which table.  As you can see, proper seating is hard work, and it requires careful planning.

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The Jewish faith is one that is deeply rooted in tradition. A traditional Jewish wedding follows a number of beautiful traditions that date back for thousands of years. The traditions include the signing of the Ketubah, the use of the chuppah as well as traditional dances that are performed at the wedding. The rings exchanged during a Jewish wedding also have traditional connotations.

The signing of the Ketubah is the traditional start to a Jewish wedding ceremony. The Ketubah is a written agreement that not only asserts that the bride is not already married but also outlines the expectations that the couple hold for each other in the marriage. This ornate document can later be framed and prominently displayed in the couple’s home as a reminder of their commitment. After the bride and groom have signed the Ketubah, the groom takes one final look at his bride before lowering her veil and beginning the wedding procession. This tradition has biblical roots and recalls the story of Jacob who married the wrong woman because she was veiled and he did not realize his mistake in time.

The wedding party traditionally precedes the couple in the wedding procession. The bride and groom then proceed down the aisle together accompanied by both of their parents to symbolize that their union includes the union of both families and not just the bride and the groom. The couple ends their procession under a traditional canopy called a chuppah. This canopy symbolizes that God is present and that he is sheltering and protecting the couple.

After the couple exchanges their wedding vows, a Rabbi reads 7 traditional blessings. After the blessings the groom steps on a wine glass to break the glass in a symbol of human frailty and the suffering that members of the Jewish faith have endured and this with a final blessing from the rabbi concludes the ceremony. Unlike other traditional weddings, there is usually not a receiving line at the conclusion of a Jewish wedding. Tradition holds that the couple spends a few minutes alone immediately following the wedding so many members of the Jewish faith honour this tradition by leaving the ceremony immediately and waiting until the reception to offer their well wishes to the couple. This togetherness time was traditionally an opportunity for the couple to consummate the marriage but in modern times it is more of chance for the couple to reflect on their wedding ceremony and the start of their life together before the chaos of the wedding.

Even the rings that a couple exchanges during a Jewish wedding have traditional values. Tradition holds that the couple exchange very simple rings that are devoid of gems, engravings or other distinguishing marks. With nothing to distinguish the beginning or the end of the ring, it is a beautiful symbol of a love that endures forever with no clear beginning or end. This symbolizes both the couples love for each other as well as Godís love for his people.

A traditional Jewish wedding reception features many dances. An energetic dance called the Hora is performed at many traditional Jewish weddings. In this dance the bride and groom hold a handkerchief between them while they are seated in chairs and hoisted into the air by their guests. This dance is a celebration of the bride and groom and recognizes the significance of their union.  If this wedding represents the last son or daughter of one of the parents to be married there are a few more traditional dances that may take place. If the bride was the last in her family to be married, she and her sisters may honour their mother in a tradition known as Krenzi. The mother is crowned with flowers and her daughters honour her in the form of dance. Also, if either the bride or groom was the youngest to be married both of the parents will be honoured through the Mizinke dance. In this tradition all of the guests circle the parents and shower them with flowers and praise.

The Jewish faith is a faith that is full of history and tradition. Many couples and their guests choose to honour these traditions by incorporating them into their wedding ceremony and reception. Many of these traditions are the defining moments of the celebration and they lend an atmosphere of historical significance to the wedding.

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